Pakistani Village Larkiyon ko Sex Education ki Class deta hai.

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Safaid scarf wali Pakistani larkiyon ne ghor se suna jab Teacher ne un ke Body mein honay wali tabdeelion ko bayan kya.

Jab Teacher ne poocha ke agar koi stranger inhen Hath lgaye to inhen kya karna chahiye, class mein khalbali mach gayi.

” Marna Chahiye !” aik nay tajweez kya .

” cheekhain !” aik ne puraka .

” Apne nakhunon se sakht Noch lo !” aik teesri ne kaha .

Maghribi schools mein jinsi taleem aam hai lekin yeh sabaq qadamat pasand dehi Pakistan mein ho rahay hain, jo 180 million abadi par mushtamil muslim Country hai .

Pakistan mein awaami tor par jinsi taluqaat ke baray mein baat karna mamnoo hai aur yahan tak ke sazae mout bhi ho sakti hai. walidain ne shadi mein nachnay ya khirki se bahar dekhnay jaisay masoom juraim ke liye apni baityon ke gilaay kaat diye hain ya inhen tezaab pheink diya hai .

Pakistan mein taqreeban kahin bhi kisi qisam ki munazzam jinsi taleem nahi di jati hai. baaz jaghon par pabandi laga di gayi hai .

Lekin Sindh ke gaon Juhi mein kaam karne walay Teachers ka kehna hai ke wahan ke ziyada tar khandan un ke jinsi taleem ke mansoobay ki himayat karte hain .

Village shaad abad organization ke zair e intizam aath muqami schools mein lag bhag 700 larkiyan dakhla le rahi hain. un ke jinsi taleem ke asbaq – jo aath saal ki Umar se shuru hotay hain – un ke Body mein honay wali tabdeelion ka ihata karte hain, un ke haqooq kya hain aur apni hifazat kaisay ki jati hai.

FACTS OF LIFE

Lashari ne kaha ke dehaat mein ziyada tar larkiyan yeh samjhay baghair baloghat ki taraf jati theen ke inhen mahvari aana shuru ho jaye gi ya unhon ne jinsi taluqaat ke tareeqa car ko samjhay baghair shadi kar li .

Yahan tak ke yeh sabaq larkiyon ko azdawaji asmat darri ke baray mein bhi sakata hai – Pakistan mein aik inqalabi khayaal, jahan miyan biwi ko jinsi taluqaat par majboor karna jurm nahi hai .

Lashari ne kaha ke” hum inhen batatay hain ke agar un ke shohar un ke sath jinsi taluqaat qaim nahi kar satke hain,” Lashari ne kaha .

Asbaq baqaida classon mein aik izafah hain aur walidain ko apni baityon ke indraaj se pehlay bataya jata hai. Lashari ne kaha ke kisi ne aitraaz nahi kya aur school ko kisi mukhalfat ka saamna nahi karna para .

8 Schools ko australvi company Sponsorship mili jo qareebi gas plant chalati hai, lekin Lashari ka kehna hai ke jinsi taleem gaon walon ka apna khayaal tha .

Teacher sarah balouch, jin ki peelay rang ki shlwar Khamis ne gird alood shool ke sehan ko roshan kya, kaha ke woh larkiyon ko yeh samajhney mein madad karne ki umeed rakhti hain ke barray honay ka kya matlab hai .

Unhon ne kaha ke jab larkiyan mahvari shuru karti hain to woh sochti hain ke yeh sharamnaak hai aur –apne walidain ko nahi batati aur yeh nahi sochti ke woh bemaar ho gayi hain .

Balouch chhoout ke teen kamron ke chhootey se school mein paratha hai. chothi class bahar rakhi gayi hai kyunkay wahan bohat si larkiyan hain .

3 larkiyan 2 ke liye banai gayi har nashist mein ghis jati hain, balouch ko ghhor se sun rahi hain. aik flash card mein dekhaya gaya hai ke aik larki aik boorhay aadmi ko is ki taang chone se rokkk rahi hai. dosray card larkiyon ki hosla afzai karte hain ke woh –apne walidain ya doston ko bitayen ke agar koi un ka peecha kar raha hai .

larkiyan Sharmeeli hain lekin sabaq doob chuka hai .

” meri Body sirf meri hai aur is par sirf mera haq hai. agar koi meri sharamgah ko choota hai to mein is ke chehray par kaat dun ga ya thapar maroo ga,’ ‘ 10 sala Uzma pnhor ne sharmate hue kaha .

asbaq shadi ka bhi ihata karte hain .

” hamaray Teacher ne hamein woh sab kuch bta diya hai jo hamein shadi ke waqt karna parre ga. ab hum ne seekh liya hai ke hamein kya karna chahiye aur kya nahi,’ ‘ 16 sala Sajida balouch ne zameen ki taraf ghoortay hue kaha .

AHEAD OF ITS TIME?

Pakistan ke chand naamwar school, jin mein bawaqar bekon house school system bhi shaamil hai, Juhi mein jinsi taleem ki tarz par ghhor kar rahay hain .

Beaconhouse ki director Rohi haq ne kaha,” larkiyan –apne walidain se sex ke baray mein baat karne mein sharam mehsoos karti hain. “demand zaroor hai. Lahore se talluq rakhnay walay Arshad Javed ne jinsi taleem par teen kitaaben likhi hain aur kaha ke woh salana taqreeban 7000 kitaaben bektay hain. koi bhi Schools ko farokht nahi kya jata hai .

lekin har koi is sabaq se ittafaq nahi karta, juzwi tor par is liye ke nojawanon ko baaligh honay se pehlay jinsi talluq nahi karna chahiye tha. haal hi mein hukoomat ne ishrafia Lahore gramr school ko majboor kya ke woh –apne nisaab se tamam jinsi taleem ko hata day .

Pakistan private schools federation ke saddar Mirza kashif Ali ne kaha ke yeh hamaray aeen aur mazhab ke khilaaf hai, jo ke malik bhar mein 152, 000 se zayed idaron ki numaindagi karti hai .

” aisi cheez ke baray mein jan-nay ka kya faida hai jo aap ko nahi karna chahiye? school ki satah par is ki ijazat nahi honi chahiye.’ ‘

parosi mulk Bharat mein bohat se sarkari shool baqaida tor par jinsi taleem dete hain lekin Pakistani sarkari Schools mein aisa koi mansoobah nahi hai. soobah Sindh ke wazeer taleem Nisar Ahmed Khorho sabaq sun kar heran reh gaye .

larkiyon ke liye jinsi taleem? woh aisa kaisay kar satke hain? yeh hamaray nisaab ka hissa nahi hai, khuwa sarkari ho ya niji,’ ‘ unhon ne kaha .

lekin tahir ashrafi, jo Pakistan ulama council kehlanay walay aitdaal pasand ulma ke ittehaad ke sarbarah hain, ne kaha ke is terhan ke asbaq islami qanoon ke tehat jaaiz hain jab tak ke woh allag allag aur nazriya tak mehdood rahen .

Unhon ne kaha ke agar Teachers khawateen hain to woh Shariat ki hudood mein larkiyon ko aisi maloomat day sakti hain .

 

By Katharine Houreld; John O’Callaghan and Michael Perry

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